Do you realize that everything in our reality is “for” us? Everything in the spectrum from good to bad, light to dark ~the duality of being in this world~ is for our highest growth and potential. Even those uncomfortable situations, the sad events, the loss, the gain. In other words, we are but magnets to the experiences we draw to us, based on our thoughts and the emotional ties to them. The stronger the emotion the stronger the magnetic pull.
The important piece in this, is it takes out the blame and shame we throw on others when we recognize our piece in the cosmic puzzle. We draw to us the things we focus on, the experiences we need for our expansion. Because this is why we are here- soul expansion, awareness and being conscious – totally conscious. Our subconscious is always playing out old scripts that take us out of our center of gravity, our alignment with our north star. The more we are aware of our beliefs, behaviors, and habits, good and yes bad, helps us to move away from old unconscious programming. This allows more room in our consciousness for creativity, vitality and optimum health. As we focus on all that’s going right rather than everything that’s not, the faster we accelerate, the broader our awareness.
I recently had an experience that was embarrassing, hurtful, shameful actually, in ways that ironically had nothing to do with me yet was interloped into my experience, psyche and emotions. One of my main core values is integrity. I don’t care if someone isn’t in theirs- their prerogative- however when their misalignment interweaves into my world, it hurts my heart. It pisses me off. Truth is when we are angry there’s usually hurt underneath or a need to deflect responsibility onto someone else. In my case, it was hurt.
I then asked myself in what way did I magnetize this uncomfortable low frequency behavior to me, because I obviously pulled it in from somewhere in the ethers. It’s how it works. Sucks really -as it forces us- me in this case, to really look in the mirror. I realized in my words and dialogue I’d said multiple times, “Well this is where there’s a hiccup.” Great, Candia. So you created the hiccup you wanted to avoid by how? By magnifying and magnetizing the behavior I wanted to avoid by my sheer attention to it.
What does the experience provide? What kind of insight? What choices and decisions will then be based on the experience, to procure insight for future avoidance? It clarifies, “What do I really really want?”
First of all, I am completely clear, 100%, I don’t want this kind of behavior and attitude in my personal space again. Like ever. It’s very low vibrational thinking and pulls me down. Guess I drew it to me for extra razor sharp perception and knowing. It could also be construed as a pivotal point, a place of no return, a place never to revisit. For this to occur, I have to keep my thoughts, emotions, high frequency, which means in laymen’s terms, to bask in the flavor, mood, thoughts and emotions of what I do love to be surrounded in, what kinds of high integrity behavior I love in my space, what types of positive, loving, affirming, respectful energies I thrive on. And keep it at that.
The best part is, no matter what, if I’m actively pursuing these thoughts with deep felt happy emotional magnetic chords, that outcome, what I desire to be true, will be.
Cosmic sunshine to you.
Sit with this. Everything that happens in our lives is for us, in support of us because we created it. Yes all of it. So thrive in your creative genius and focus on only the good things you desire to have. Make it a habit. See what develops. Then please share your story.