“The Sex of It”

I love sex! It’s one of those awesome joys of earth dwelling. It obviously rules our planet. Oh, that and money, power and greed. But that’s besides the point. We are focusing on sex.

Sex, love-making, is so much more than the big “O.” It’s the mystery, the fantasies, the courting, the touch, seduction, taste, smell. It invests every part of our senses to create the whole enchilada, the complete package. It’s the alchemical stirrings, the longings, the lust. It’s the magic enveloping two people that creates the rapport, the synergy of smooth motion and design. And it’s the feeling of connectedness and satisfaction when complete.


What a great concept and vehicle the gods devised into our design matrix. I mean, all you have to do is look at nature to see fertility runs the elements, seasons, life.

So what if all life had that same interactive genius possible? What if we were to approach life from the vantage of flirting, sparring, dangling dialogue? For the pleasure of it- Yep to create pleasure in daily rituals. Make the mundane not-so-boring, escort the have-to’s into a new play arena of intrigue and expectancy. I like it!

An example: The-Sex-of-It grocery shopping/cooking. (I know. Many people equate food to sex anyway, but not me. Not me!)
Flirt: with food combinations, herbs, spices, literally mingling in the sensuousness.
Vision: see the beauty in the rich vibrancy of color.
Dialogue: smartly with grocer about best deals, freshest foods.
Smell: the foods to discover the most delicious ripeness and sumptuousness of fruits.
Touch: the vegetables and fruits’ skins to discern whole-ness, tone and textures. (Zucchinis are great for this sport.)
Taste: the sweetness and juiciness allowing the allure to pull you in.
Alchemical reaction: in the creation, the combining of ingredients, talent and tools to manifest the final product.
Design: the beautiful and attractive presentation to visually seduce, enrapture and ensnare.
Completion: feeling satisfied and satiated, ready for more provocation in future mutual exchanges.


Or The-Sex-of-It work/career:
Flirt: with a project, playing creatively in your mind, lining up the drawing power, the magnetism.
Vision: see the elements come together in a fiery successful combination, benefiting all.
Dialogue: with fellow players sparking passionate debates and avenues for design.
Smell: the environment. It signals initiation, the foreplay of form into action, action into form.
Touch: the components, trace the tools; ignite inspiration.
Taste: success in your endeavors, add spiciness to the details.
Alchemical reaction: all components, players come together in unison with final product/sales/marketing concept plan.
Design: alluring magnetic presentation igniting intrigue, interest.
Completion: charismatic success, satisfaction, suggesting more deals, connections.


It’s mind-tricks of course, but how much fun? Sure makes shopping and cooking more enjoyable, especially for one who doesn’t take pleasure in it. Or work? Even government work could be more successful, fruitful, provoking, – maybe even productive- if approached from a sensual explosion of earthly elements put forth for our imagination, our achievements.

Try it on, move it around in your thoughts and senses. Create a new arousing journey.

What a suggestive, provocative thought.

To The-Sex-of-It.

Cosmic sunshine to you.

About Candia Sanders

I love life! I love the abundance, beauty, magnificence, color, emotions, prolific sensuous joys, relationships, animals, nature, spiritual "magic"- the Aliveness - of which humanness reveals. Combine that with sharp, keen intuitive insight and it's a recipe for fun in the fast lane. Intuitive since young, combined with a natural ability to heal has created an arena where possibilities are open and opportunities abound. International Intuitive and Energetic Healer, Medical Intuitive, Psychic
This entry was posted in Cosmic Tidbits and tagged , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , . Bookmark the permalink.

7 Responses to “The Sex of It”

  1. Monica Urbin says:

    Your passion for just about everything in life is so refreshing and I so enjoy reading your blog posts! You are light itself 🙂
    Love you my friend,

    • Monica, thanks so much for the happy positive feedback. I love to write and you never know how it’ll be perceived. So thx much for your love and support!

      You’re awesome my lifetime friend!
      Love and hugs,

  2. oh this is so perfect…thank you for talking so openly about this wonderfulness…..thank you

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out /  Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out /  Change )

Connecting to %s