I recently met a woman who’d lost her husband near on four years ago. She cried at the mere mention of his name. I’m sure you know others who’ve continued to hold the grief and connection with parted loved ones still within their being, making it challenging to move forward with their lives. Coming from a place of recent experience, I completely understand. Yet, I believe, those who’ve moved on, want us to be happy here at the earth level. I know if the situations were reversed I’d want my loved ones to move forward, move onward with their lives and loves.
Daily I do exercises and visualizations making sure I’m balanced, in my Light and connected to All That Is. It takes constant practice and diligence. When I’m doing visuals I check in with my inner guidance, with my former husband, my dad. I’ve been checking to see where they are in my energy fields, observing equilibrium and influence.
A friend suggested it was time to forgive Dale, my husband, and let him go. I realized I wasn’t ready. I thought of my new client not letting go, holding onto her grief. Fascinating I was in her camp. I also feel it’s part of the grieving process ~ letting go in increments and layers. It just is. However, grief really isn’t quite the right word for how I feel, especially since I float between the time zones of here and there, now and then. I’m not holding onto grief. I’m not sure if there is a word to describe the feeling, the emotion, the understanding? (It’s like being at a train station and choosing another track, a new destination. Both trains are real, valid, however there’s new and different energy and travel on the horizon.) For me too, I know it’s because I call on Dale regularly to assist me in the final pieces of business negotiations on his company, the situation that nearly buried me in duress and mental stress. I can feel him. He’s close. He also still messes with my phone and car dashboard regularly.
What I’ve done is move his energy out and above my inner emotional (frequency) circles, my energy fields. He’s still reachable however I have more maneuverable room in my heart to seek out a new world, my next best path. I really feel it’s the key. We can’t let new things into our worlds, our hearts, if we are still holding onto the past ~ whether it’s a relationship ending in disolvement, divorce, death ~ if we are still focused on this person who no longer resides with us physically. This applies to any and all things. We need to clear out the residue, the emotional debris to allow new life, new love, new opportunities to abound.
Of course, timing is different for everyone. No one way is correct or right. But the most vital piece is doing it. Moving onward. Allow those on the Other Side to move onward themselves and experience greater cosmic unity as we too expand our consciousness at this level. It’s part of the process. As I’ve always said, we are gnats on the windshield of life. It’s more than fast. We have to embrace every day we are here on this amazing ride. Believe, Love, Embrace, Let Go, Embrace, Love, Believe.
Opening space inside ourselves applies to everything! We have to believe it’s possible to create new life, new love, new careers, new journeys. I know so so many people looking for love in their lives. Too many lonely people. We are a planet rich in abundant personalities. There’s someone out there for Everyone when they’re emotionally ready. The KEY is to clear the clutter out of the heart, wipe out the “old hurts,” make the slate clean, then totally completely believe 150% that someone special wonderful awesome is coming into our world as soon as we’d like. The only thing holding us back is our belief that that person, that soul, isn’t there, or they don’t deserve someone who truly loves them, or it’ll end poorly so why begin, or, or, or. Craziness.
My entire life, I’ve always expected great people to be in my life, expected awesome men to walk the journey along side me. And it’s happened. Every step of the way because I Believe and Know it’s not only possible but it’s the way of life. It’s my strong belief in incredible love, rich experiences, connections that make it happen. Even in the wake of death. I know and believe it to be true!! ❤️
My loving invitation is to look inside, see what, where, how we are holding ourselves back on any level and move that belief, that disempowering energy, that frequency out of our hearts and allow love in, in all forms. It’s so worth it. Come walk the journey with me, holding hands in love.
Cosmic sunshine to you.