“Loving the Pain”

I don’t know about you but I love Love! Every aspect of it. I Love life, even the pitfalls and pain. I’m stronger, deeper, more whole because of it. I welcome it, embrace it in every ounce of who I am, even when I hold things at arms length while I wrap my head and heart around the confusion, the insecurities, till I feel comfortable. We all need to feel safe and comfortable. I believe “Loving the Pain” is essential.

We’d love to avoid the superhighway of hurt, sadness, gut-wrenching Pain, however, we wouldn’t grow if we did. I know a lot of people who have chosen to move into a noncommittal, uninvolved, cautious, almost restrained relationship with life, themselves, with others. It keeps the heart in reserve, wary. Oh yeah….heart attacks….an unhealthy bi-product. Bigger truth here~ we, you and I have all chosen to be here so we can learn, dive, feel, be. If we didn’t experience the intensity of the road, we’d miss the beauty.

One thing I’ve learned well is when things are off balance or uncomfortable or painful I always bring it back to me, to myself to see what’s out of balance within me. Dive into the ooohey gooey mess. When things are said or acted upon that create an emotional trigger – well guess what? It’s about you, me, something within us that requires attention and healing and love. Even through death. Death is about trust ironically. Trust that all is well and perfect and the way it’s supposed to be even when it feels the opposite. Love the Pain. Why? Because I believe in the divinity  of life and love and relationships and pain.


When we Love the Pain it actually disappears like smoke from a night fire, evaporating and melting into the cosmos, like the transformation of wood to flame to sparks to ash to dissolving vapor, an alchemical metamorphosis of form and energy, of Pain into Love.


When life throws a few curves remember we’ve the skills and most of all, Heart, to maneuver the corners, crossings and intersections. Loving the love, loving the Pain, loving the beauty of the journey. Ironically it’s what feed our souls.


Cosmic sunshine to you.


Candia Sanders is an International Medical Intuitive, Healer, Author and Speaker who has helped countless thousands of people ease their medical issues, navigate important relationships and find their soul’s purpose and life direction. Candia is also the author of the transcendent new book, “Soul Rays: Discover the Vibratory Frequency of Your Soul“.


About Candia Sanders

I love life! I love the abundance, beauty, magnificence, color, emotions, prolific sensuous joys, relationships, animals, nature, spiritual "magic"- the Aliveness - of which humanness reveals. Combine that with sharp, keen intuitive insight and it's a recipe for fun in the fast lane. Intuitive since young, combined with a natural ability to heal has created an arena where possibilities are open and opportunities abound. International Intuitive and Energetic Healer, Medical Intuitive, Psychic
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