“What Would You Prefer to Turn On?”

The other night I was given the proposition: What would you prefer? Turning on the TV or being turned on? Now I realize that’s a personal thing, a personal question. Sex is about intimacy, so you don’t need to hear about mine. Yet it’s incredibly important at this current time in our changing world. Ironically too, discussing sex doesn’t seem like something that would be at the top of the spiritual hit list yet ironically the opposite is true.

First of all, before I get into the real spiritual dynamics, it’s all too easy in a very busy world to turn on a movie than each other. We come home tired from the day, sex the last thing on our minds. Yet….if we were to take that special time with each other on a very regular basis, our relationships would be more intimate, more connected, love enhanced. And sometimes faking the moment to get ‘there’ is not a bad option, if the end game is to relax and connect. Then the true possibility of changing our minds into a more-receptive-sexually-charged direction can happen.

But bigger picture here; how is sex connected to spirituality, to a more cosmic view on reality?

Back in our collective history, sex was honored, revered, enjoyed. It was about engaging the feminine dynamic into the equation, a mutual exchange of energy. The female was honored and respected as she was the giver of life. Women were the sages and mystics, the wise leaders of the clans. Sex was a natural extension of that special connection to the mysterious, the cosmos and the intuitive guidance that was adhered to in daily rituals.

Then times changed. The patriarchal society took over eliminating the matriarchal society of previous centuries. We lost our connection both spiritually and sexually. Pagans were wiped out for their beliefs. Their spiritual/sexual connections went the way of their belief systems, including our innately-natural, divinely-connected, masculine/feminine spark. Symbolically sex is the closest we ever come to divine creation, the orgasm mirroring the Big Bang of stardust and magic, shaft and receptacle, electric and magnetic, egg and sperm. Simply Divine.

And then it became evil. Sex was outcast. It became wicked, naughty, dirty. (Anything connected to paganism, any beliefs non-church related went bye bye. Bathing which was normal in the pagan world went the way of sex. Baths became a once a month ordeal if that. Can you even image?) We simply lost our connection with the alchemical orgasmic magic linking us with the cosmos. The church took away our own abilities to connect with the divine not only internally through intuition and with sexuality but they also interjected priests as our only spiritual conduits to Divinity.

The 1960’s sexual revolution helped reconnect us to what had been lost and pave the way for positive change and the sacred feminine to once again be uncovered. Since then feminine sexuality has been able to recharge and expand into embracing the inherent internal magic available. We also have the polar opposite with the multiple distortions of negative sexual energy running rampant on this planet. I’m not even sure some of you would even believe the degradation that is an undercurrent running across nation’s borders. Its’s really a nasty atrocity. But rather than go ‘there’ I’m here to carry the spiritual-sexual energy forward to ignite in your brains.

To change the world to its highest vibrations and evolve out of 3D and into the 5th dimensions, in other words the ‘ascension’ process, we have to hold the true vibrations of the divine masculine and feminine within ourselves and mirror it to each other. Sexually as well. These principles are the reflections of and to, our external worlds on so many levels. To name a few: day/masculine, night/feminine, sun/masculine, moon/feminine, right/masculine, left/feminine, electric/masculine, magnetic/feminine. Yin/yang. You get the picture. It’s the world of duality we live in, the dual aspects of male/female. To love each aspect, respect it and embrace the energies is how we heal. Not by depleting, berating, shaming, blaming, disempowering. Not be dispersing or muddying the true identities and/or frequencies of the principles. We are composites of both. That’s why we are in the mess we are: the fracturing of the principles on both sides of the fence.

So back to sex. Always look at how we are feeling about ourselves. Be clear with our sexual intentions. Always approach it from our highest ideal within as then there will be no recriminations, no bad lingering juju or bad karma. This is our opportunity to shift the planet one person at a time by honoring the sexual frequencies of both principles within ourselves and forcing the external world to reflect back the same.

To turning off the TV and turning on each other.

Cosmic sunshine to you.

About Candia Sanders

I love life! I love the abundance, beauty, magnificence, color, emotions, prolific sensuous joys, relationships, animals, nature, spiritual "magic"- the Aliveness - of which humanness reveals. Combine that with sharp, keen intuitive insight and it's a recipe for fun in the fast lane. Intuitive since young, combined with a natural ability to heal has created an arena where possibilities are open and opportunities abound. International Intuitive and Energetic Healer, Medical Intuitive, Psychic
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