A young woman worried that her girlfriend wasn’t sharing enough time communicating with her got exactly the results she dreaded: her girlfriend stopped texting and calling, to the moment she feared most: breakup.

The flip of the coin:

A man in his mid fifties desiring a new job environment due to a cultural takeover, worried and fretted he was going to be blamed for departmental employee departures, was subsequently reprimanded and given notice.

The flip of the coin:

A young man on the plethora of today’s dating sites, is totally convinced he’s not ever going to have someone match up with him: you guessed it. The apps are quiet.

The flip of the coin:

A gentleman married for forty years is separated from his wife on a weekly basis due to current job changes, throwing a new curve ball into their relationship, that’d previously moved at a particular pace through the decades. He’s concerned she’s more involved with her job than him. The answer is…yes…his fears and worries are coming true.

The flip of the coin:

Here’s the kicker. If each and every one of them were to shift how they see things, how they view the horizon line before them,  focusing on the positives instead of the negative, the results would literally transform before their eyes.  It truly is like magic. It involves complete trust in ourselves the universe and the ones around us. Trust that what’s unfolding is in our highest and best good. Trust that love is the glue. Trust our intuition rather than relying on other’s opinions.

The truth is we’ve been taught to emotionally worry. Be uptight. To stress out over things that aren’t necessarily true until we believe them into fruition. Just imagine if our girl were to relax, trust and imagine her girlfriend communicating, sharing time, what would transpire?  If our career man were to relax, trust and embrace the community he’s in, appreciating the money he is paid, contribute his best skills, seeing his future bright with possibilities, what the outcome would be? Imagine if our young man were to relax, trust and see himself finding a fun, smart active companion, desiring to share his lifestyle, plan adventures, what would actually unfold? Imagine if our married man were to relax, trust and see his wife happy in her new job, content with the travel and thrilled to be home how much better their relationship would and could be?

Do you feel the difference? Do you see what I am describing? Most of us do the negative dance. If we were to only change our focus our results would be dramatically different. The key is we have to do it. As an example, I took an afternoon hike yesterday. The day wasn’t perfect; it was damp, gray and more wind than I would’ve liked, however I felt invigorated, grateful, happy to have the ability to get out and enjoy the outdoors, embrace nature. I literally thanked all the juniper trees as I walked by.  When we take the time to flip the coin, stay in the positive ‘what if‘s’ versus the negative ‘what if‘s,’ staying in the present moment, being grateful for all before us, our lives change. Like with me yesterday, it never rained the two hours I was on the trail.

What’s on our horizon line that we have the ability to see differently, notice the magic? When we actively make this a daily prerogative, a choice and focus, our lives will definitely be more in alignment.

Just saying…

Cosmic sunshine to you.

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