“Why Being Grateful Isn’t Enough”

This is going to sound odd, however being grateful isn’t enough. Wild statement, right? And the reason I say this is being gratefulness is still outside ourselves. It’s like seeing a bouquet of flowers on the table. We enjoy them, appreciate the beauty, are grateful for their presence/presents in our homes, yet those thoughts are still externalized. We do the same with the good things that come our way. We keep them emotionally externalized, outside our inner being, our hearts, based on past hurtful experiences. What if…? pops into our awareness, fears creeps into our thinking and we keep the goodness, the rewards and love on the table, like the flowers in the vase. Externalized.


To really manifest change, to create our desired outcomes, we have to truly allow ourselves to feel it, be it, feel the appreciation, the gratitude, the fullness of the moment, the connection, the relationship, within our hearts. That feeling of totally being in love with life, with ourselves . That’s what creates the instantaneous shift in awareness. It’s what creates higher vibrations within our bodies, ie, the emotional, mental and physical bodies, healing through love, distortions within the cells. And and and!! You just feel great!

So how do you go from external to internal? You become the temple instead of going to one. You bring the focus inward to your heart temple, all the positives of the day. The love of an animal, friends, family. Find the best rewards within your daily routine; bring them into your heart. Feel them.

Now just love them – all the goodness and connections and emotional gifts and bonuses to death, till death, since there is no death, it translates to forever. As you do, love yourself, every single aspect of you: your body, your weird characteristics, your talents, your foibles, your dreams, your lessons, your strengths and powers. Feel this gratitude in your heart! ❤️ This is Powerful! But bottom line is you’ve got to do it.


Then relationships take on a new vibe, a brighter hue. Whether in steady long term connections to attracting the next best highest vibing love, this changes the experiential feeling. Why? Because you flipped the switch, brought the love inside, and can feel the exuberance and excitement. This applies to all aspects in life, not just relationships. You are the key.

Make it a Mantra, a habit.

Let me know after you’ve added this daily for the next several months what’s changed in your life, because things will. Guaranteed.

What a bonus.


Cosmic sunshine to you.




About Candia Sanders

I love life! I love the abundance, beauty, magnificence, color, emotions, prolific sensuous joys, relationships, animals, nature, spiritual "magic"- the Aliveness - of which humanness reveals. Combine that with sharp, keen intuitive insight and it's a recipe for fun in the fast lane. Intuitive since young, combined with a natural ability to heal has created an arena where possibilities are open and opportunities abound. International Intuitive and Energetic Healer, Medical Intuitive, Psychic
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