“We Are the Center of Our Universe”

I know, I know, it sounds rather ego centric and self centered, not too mention self serving, to say we are the center of the universe, however metaphorically there’s truth. We are the captain of our own ship, in charge of our perceptions, reactions, responses, choices. Good ones, poor ones, bad ones. We are the commander of our universe. Everything we have thought, done, chosen has brought us to this moment. Career, health, relationships, happiness. How we choose to perceive any situation, event or experience is of our choosing.


Our solar system is a wonderful visual. If we imagine ourselves as the sun, the center of our particular system in a vast expanse of cosmic happenings, with all the planets and moons and asteroids and comets and space particles and stardust and ships in our orbit, in our gravitational spin, we can see where we focus our light or darken our gaze, draw things, events, people into our centripetal spin, or out of our centrifugal force.


I am reminded daily we create our experiences by the wonderful stories people share with me regularly. They’re so rich and real, the analogies, metaphors and meanings, I couldn’t make up the synchronicities. I sit back and follow the path, sharing the visuals I receive. So incredible life, us!

A grand example.  A phenomenal woman, brilliant, creative, CEO of a mid size company, has had her share of big stress. Stress, the numero uno killer. The mental, emotional and physical stress finally took her down into the viral spin of mononucleosis this last year. And unfortunately (or fortunately depending on perspective, as it can now be viewed more clearly, deeper,) it’s recently resurfaced. Her Achilles heel. In going deeper, there was this aha! This hello! We’ve got this! A window into the why’s of the creation of this particular virus. We all have tons of viruses in our bodies and stress can create a vast range of problematic symptoms – so why does the body activate this and not that? Heart attack instead of cancer, mono instead of pneumonia? Why? Because each event, experience, and in this case dis-ease we create, perfectly matches the emotional, gravitational, centripetal spin within us. We are truly amazing beings. Whether it’s a career leap, relationship merry-go-round, physical challenge, nervous system hiccup, even living near toxic environmental hazards, impinging our immune systems, it’s part of our life story, part of my personal journey…

…Due to living near a paper mill that dumped illegal toxins into the air -twice- damaging my lungs, it created the high level healing avenue into the energetic bodies. Because of the level of physical duress, I was forced to sit quietly, go within and decide to heal myself. This part of my life was a three year juncture, however I am where I am today because of this chemically toxic chapter.

Back to my CEO. Here’s the aha, staring so boldly in my face. Mono. What does that say? One. Yes, one. No duo-nucleosis, not tri-nucleosis, mono. The emotional component was feeling all alone in this position, keeping everything and everyone happy, while she alone handles the big complexities and decisions.  Whether it’s the truth or not, it’s how she feels even if it’s a subconscious spin. It is what Is. Being “mono.” The remedy? Rethink, reorganize, delegate, subdivide, and conquer. Shift the stress. Of course of course, there are all the physical things that accompany the journey, however when things repeat, we as the sun in our solar system, our own major source of light, need to fully see our lighted-up creation to understand the deeper meanings and why’s. With lighted vision, we have the ability to shift, change, grow and create the outcome we desire. As I’ve said before, we then become wise.

Here’s to wisdom!


Cosmic sunshine to you.


Candia Sanders is an International Medical Intuitive, High Frequency Healer, Author and Speaker -an Eternal Optimist- who has helped countless thousands of people ease their medical issues, navigate important relationships and find their soul’s purpose and life direction. Candia is also the author of the transcendent new book, “Soul Rays: Discover the Vibratory Frequency of Your Soul“. She has also written a lively magical and spiritual children’s adventure called “The Adventures of Jack Starr, In Hawaii.”




About Candia Sanders

I love life! I love the abundance, beauty, magnificence, color, emotions, prolific sensuous joys, relationships, animals, nature, spiritual "magic"- the Aliveness - of which humanness reveals. Combine that with sharp, keen intuitive insight and it's a recipe for fun in the fast lane. Intuitive since young, combined with a natural ability to heal has created an arena where possibilities are open and opportunities abound. International Intuitive and Energetic Healer, Medical Intuitive, Psychic
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