“Lessons from Death”

November 21st, ’55, my second husband was born in California. We celebrated his last birthday two years ago. He left the planet two months later.

Time is nebulous. It’s a circle. It’s a construct. It’s forever. Life moves forward. We breathe deeper, pull ourselves up by our bootstraps and move onward, embracing all that comes our way. Time is an illusion.


Time? Two years later in our world, are 730 days. On the Other Side? Where Time doesn’t exist, lifetimes as we know them, have been played out, experiences explored and evolution of the soul continues. We on the other hand are immersed in daily interactions, money challenges, relationship squabbles, career changes and the whatever’s. Our Souls do evolve but at a different pace. The ironic best part is we have the op to expand exponentially here. Literally “Times” whatever we make it. Time is multiplication. Seriously. Each lifetime, well – it’s a playground of endless possibilities to expand our soul’s potential multiple times. Exciting  stuff really. But do we?

In these last two years, I’ve been down to the pits of stressful hell to climbing beautiful mountains. I’ve been in the beige of nothingness to brightly colored orgasmic lights. I’ve learned a ton. I’ve learned not enough. I’ve talked to loved ones and other’s loved ones on the Other Side, which is just the Other Side of the Mirror, the Door in the Wardrobe. This broadened expansion is a good thing that comes from death. Being totally in the present is also a lesson, a gift of death.

Best part is from experiencing a death of loved ones early, there’s a learning process interwoven throughout the the journey. So, when it’s my time to experience yet another “final sunset” it’ll be from a deeper place of understanding, a more focused place of intention.  Some major Carp Diem happing. I will know when I say “Till I see you again,” I’ve lived it rich. Loved Immeasurably.  Mistakes yes. A few wrong turns, definitely. But, I’ve built richly upon them all.

To living. To living fully.



Cosmic sunshine to you.


Candia Sanders is an International Medical Intuitive, High Frequency Healer, Author and Speaker -an Eternal Optimist- who has helped countless thousands of people ease their medical issues, navigate important relationships and find their soul’s purpose and life direction. Candia is also the author of the transcendent new book, “Soul Rays: Discover the Vibratory Frequency of Your Soul“. She has also written a lively magical and spiritual children’s adventure called “The Adventures of Jack Starr, In Hawaii.”



About Candia Sanders

I love life! I love the abundance, beauty, magnificence, color, emotions, prolific sensuous joys, relationships, animals, nature, spiritual "magic"- the Aliveness - of which humanness reveals. Combine that with sharp, keen intuitive insight and it's a recipe for fun in the fast lane. Intuitive since young, combined with a natural ability to heal has created an arena where possibilities are open and opportunities abound. International Intuitive and Energetic Healer, Medical Intuitive, Psychic
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