Who doesn’t love being “in” love ~ that wonderful euphoric feeling of bliss and joy and excitement and wondering anticipation, with our brains filled with love endorphins? It’s what we seek, search for, write long sagas and tales describing. It’s what makes being human the best experience ever, why we choose revisiting the planet again and again. And again. It’s been a very “HOT” topic of late with many many people. Something is in the air. Just look at all the weddings, yep something magical is afoot.
I’ve loved being the matchmaker. I’ve connected multiple couples who are still together years later, kids in tow. I look at it from an energy, a frequency connection, a heart-soul-lifetime link. It’s what works versus relationships focused strictly on looks, career, safety, achievement. And it works, it just does, because it’s based on a higher perspective of what lights up a soul. And isn’t that what we all want, desire and ultimately learn and grow from? Lighting up from the inside? (Call me if you want to move forward with a loving connection and we’ll set up an appointment- wink wink)
I love seeing couples who truly love each other and have learned the key ingredients to long lasting great relationships and marriages. My parents have seen nearly 62 years together. Even in my dad’s compromised state, his face “lights” up when tells my mom how much he loves her, how lucky he is to have had her at his side and how beautiful she is. Now it hasn’t always been easy however they definitely have done the dance with graceful moves. A good friend of mine shared with me today incredibly useful intel on the long-range relationship subject-humility. When we are humble with one another, treat each other kindly, with loving respect and in my book a high dose of comedy, it’s a super recipe for longtime success.
On the other side, I see over and over where we totally miss the boat, compromise, waste time (unreplaceable years) and energy and heart aches (literally heart attaches) on relationships that don’t curl our toes but we stay….we stay because its easy, comfortable, safe, it’s this it’s that. God forbid what would our friends think if we walked away to follow our hearts? (I know, I did!!!) Didn’t leave because it meant starting over, or venerate and put on a pedestal those who have parted, or become attached to those who are unavailable. All the crazy silly head trips we do to ourselves to keep us from our best connection yet.
I believe ~ I know in my heart ~ and I’ve just gone through a major love-loss tsunami plus a divorce a major chapter ago ~ how truly vital down to our core it is, to follow our intuition, our love-light- not the money trail, not the sex for sex-sake, arm-ornament, in-our-heads-this-makes-sense-safety-catch kind of relationship, but a love-soul-remembrance connection. One that lights up our smiles! Is simply enjoyable. One that sings through the seasons our best songs, walks through sunsets of deep carved emotional valleys, hikes to the summits of life’s triumphs. And it doesn’t matter what stage of the game it is, from teenagers to the 80’s, it’s all relative because, love just is. I spoke with a new client today at 77 who wants to find her true love companion. Now isn’t that just brilliant!? I’d call that living large!
There are zillions of individuals who are seeking, dreaming of a partner to share the trail, see the stars and dance around their heart fires. It’s finding that heat-center that isn’t always easy? This is why dating services are at an all time record high for match-making. We want to find that person even if they live a city or state or country away. There is someone for everyone otherwise we wouldn’t all be here together at this time. When clients ask me if they’ll ever find someone, you can bet your last dollar I always say yes!
And right this minute with a full Aquarian moon in Leo 8/18 (oh so perfect for this double Aquarian, Leo rising girl) it’s a romantic, heart-filled, heart-felt time to seek intuitively what our hearts desire on all levels, in all arenas – so dream doubly BIG!
I know in my heart the universe supports our beliefs, our dreams, our desires. That’s why I believe completely in romantic, intimate, honeymoon love, (~ even with my hurts and heart aches- probably more so~) if we allow ourselves to trust, listen for truth and “be the person we would fall in love with.” I know the universe is composed and comprised of “love” ~ and if we just reach out, grab it and hold it close, bring it into our hearts and let it grow, we too will be “in love” with life, ourselves and each other.
At a time when the world needs to radically transform, the ultimate weapon of choice is…love.To being and staying “in love!!!”
Cosmic sunshine to you!
Thank you Candia this is exactly what I needed to hear!
Julie, thx much for commenting! I really appreciate it! It means a great deal to have people read what I write and better yet relate to it. So sending you big love for your next deep wonderful adventure. Hugs!