Bold right? But I’m just saying it the way it is. We are living in an interesting sexual paradigm, where the MeToo movement is jettisoning across the country for obvious reasons, executives are stepping down under public pressure juxtaposed against open cleavage even on public TV paired with men in suits and ties.  And if you didn’t catch any photos taken in Cannes, you might consider taking a perusal. Not only are bras a thing of the past, now panties are too with dresses slit to the navel and visible genitalia is ready for scrutiny.  Most of the women have their pubic hair shaved in creative designs for all to view.

If men did the same thing and decided to walk around with their cocks hanging out women would be outraged and scream diatribes about perverted disgusting men, who do they think they are? Walking with their penises naked and visible. Ahrrggg! Funny the rules of engagement. Or is it just me that sees the irony?  I understand the significance of women walking tall, being as open to their sexuality as possible, standing in their power, yet there is still irony.

History plays into this. Prior to the last five thousand years, we were a matriarchal society. Women were powerful; they were venerated and treated with respect, honor and high regard. Things shifted, men rose to leadership, religion heavily influenced society, with men writing the rules. Women were removed from power, the Goddess hidden, the scared feminine shadowed, women being subjugated for centuries the result. Women resorted to feminine wiles to get what they needed and required.  Over the last hundred years women have broken the old rules of engagement, shaken the status quo and have ignited open feminine sexuality to orgasmic levels. Women are showing their courageous prowess at the same time expecting men to behave in unprecedented ways and learn new dance moves. The younger generations are already up to speed, the older set, well, they have some catching up to do.

The polarity pendulum is swinging hard in both directions, to the socialistic left to the conservative right, religion on the run, democracy scattered. In the midst is the sexual balancing of the divine feminine and the sacred masculine each trying to discern their roles till they reach a place of balance.

Another consideration to throw on the bonfire is personal responsibility and intelligence, making sound decisions on accepting sketchy invitations, saying yes or no when applicable, wearing clothes in appropriate settings. Another thought is to throw all the old rules and paradigms on the fire, watch our old morality codes go up in flames and walk naked around the embers. Recreating Eden.

The bottom line is men’s brains are hardwired a certain way, their manliness and sexual identity a large piece of the equation. Women are designed as magnificently yet emotionally different; our goddess selves emerging gracefully and boldly. It’s superb universal craftsmanship!!  Finding balance and respect between the two alien cultures is paramount. Understanding through perseverance imperative. Striving beyond old outmoded behaviors crucial.

Personal responsibilty is at the heart of it all. ❤️ To find the true balance between the masculine principle and the feminine it has to begin with us. We each have both male and female, yin and yang, within our psyches. Until they are balanced within our own behaviors the world will continue to mirror the imperfect scales. 

‘Here’s to perfect balance.

Cosmic sunshine to you. ☀️

In college I had a date-rape situation with a good friend of two years. He was struggling with his sexuality and who better to play it out with but a close friend. Being held against my will by a man double my size, my clothes being torn, hot breath on my face was a horrible event. I fortunately held my head and talked my way out of it before he was able to consummate the deal. I grabbed my things and ran. So yes, I speak from personal experience.

At the same time, I have had the direct ability to go intuitively within a man’s thinking, to see with his eyes. We are all in this together. 

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Candia Sanders is an international medical intuitive, high-frequency energy healer, motivator, speaker, teacher, author, the ultimate optimist, and outdoor enthusiast, who has helped thousands of people ease their medical issues, navigate important relationships and find their soul’s purpose and life direction. Candia is the author of the transcendent book, “Soul Rays: Discover the Vibratory Frequency of Your Soul“. She has also written a lively magical and spiritual children’s adventure called “The Adventures of Jack Starr, In Hawaii.” “When Eagles Soar: From Diagnosis, to Death and to Open Dialogue” is her story through cancer and beyond, with her husband who died in 2016. Her goal is to create a new conversation about Death.

Upcoming books: “I Don’t Know, It’s a Mystery: 11 Prompts to Awaken Your Cosmic Connection” ”The Four R’s: Rules to Navigate Life’s Big Questions,” “Head Off, Heart On: Salacious Delights and Tantalizing Treats for Happy Relationships”