“Mental Intercourse: Emotional Orgasm”

So…What turns you on? Seriously.  Yes I’m talking about sex though really not exclusively. I’m talking what seriously curls your toes? Makes you excited to get up in the morning, you can’t stop thinking about it?  Becomes the focal point of your thoughts? Is it love? Or..? Or other ideas and creations you’re passionate about? Passion is critically important to your overall feeling of value, of purpose in the world. It makes you feel alive. But today’s passionate topic is a brief exploration of sexual foreplay.

Sex ironically is what makes the world go round and is the basic creative element underlying the explosion of life on earth. It’s worth exploring the passionate side of it, what motivates the senses. 

Everyone is different of course.  Passion, the Stimulation that gets our mojo flowing, can come in many packages. It’s amazing though how many don’t know what it is, what passion means. Too many things have swept it under the rug. And I’m talking way beyond the typical, mostly male response of, “I just want to fuck her,” stimulation, that quick gratification. Is that really passion anyway or something more base?  It’s a compliment but also boorish. I’m talking honest intensity and passion that have the potential to be more than fleeting, based on something beyond lust. It’s this “something” that turns up the endorphins, kicks in the pheromones. It also turns on the love juices.

Personally, it’s mental stimulation, a fantastic enticing intriguing informative fast- moving alluring conversation, a charismatic debate, a sizzling discourse between people where ideas are literally bouncing off the ceiling, jumping off the floor, falling out of photographs on the wall. Innuendoes, double entendres, seductive word graphology.  It’s the creative process of melding provocative facts and sensuous ideas, manifesting magnetic concepts and richly interactive-electrical-connectivity. This chemistry seduces the mind. It feels like the intoxicating effects of a bottle of dark sultry whiskey. That smooth husky warm sensation heating the interior of my sensual mind. It’s like lighting a pheromone match inside my being. Mental intensity and fiery flirtation combine. Temperatures rise, laughter deepens. Mental intercourse.

Ironically intercourse is a synonym of conversation. So perfectly matched.

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Because let’s face it. Sex is a mental game first. Why do you think so many women don’t have orgasms? Their mind-love juices aren’t stimulated. Sorry guys. It’s true. About 75 percent of all women never reach orgasm from intercourse alone — that is without the extra help of sex toys, hands or tongue. And 10 to 15 percent never climax under any circumstances.”

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Mental intercourse goes way beyond the bedroom. When two people make the concerted effort to stay mentally stimulated for themselves and then with each other, the percentages rise considerably on the connectivity scale. The longevity yardstick. That stimulation has far-reaching tendrils of confidence and independence enhancing the relationship even further.

Bonus material is when a woman’s mind is stimulated, where she feels valued and appreciated is when the emotional orgasm hits a home run into the outer fields of true love making. The fireworks go from the head to the heart. (See last blog on “The Age of Aquarius: The Magnificent Head and Heart Combo-Dance. It’s Begun.” That’s a macro view, this is the micro on the same topic seen through a different lens.)

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This is what we aspire – to be more passionately aware, to be who we are capable of being, to reveal unabashedly our emotionally raw interiors. Be in our hearts. True Intimacy. Have our relationships mirror our strengths and weaknesses, ignite our passions, speak to our interior selves and connect us to the creative cosmos within our souls. This is the magical alchemical union fairytales are written about and most crave.

And that is why mental intercourse for me is a doorway, a portal into vast passionate corridors.

For you, your doorway could be something different. The key may be put away, hidden somewhere within your psyche, however it’s always there. Find it. Reach for your passions. They make the differences in feeling truly valued and alive.

 

Cosmic sunshine to you.☀️

 

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“The Age of Aquarius: The Magnificent Head and Heart Combo-Dance. It’s Begun!”

I love how the macro reflects the micro, the big picture the minute, As Above, So Below. It’s so incredible really when I/we actually look at the symbolism of everything instead of taking things so literally. Like all the ancient prognostications, they were referenced symbolically from Sanskrit to Zoroastrianism to Christianity to even Nostradamus. It’s just our natural tendency to see and take everything at face value when in the larger context the words, events, persons and experiences are symbolic of more complex cycles.

Astronomically as well as astrologically, we are in transition from the Piscean age into Aquarius. This is known as the procession of the equinoxes; it’s the backdrop of the night sky, the glittering star constellations that are earth’s wallpaper in cycles of 2160 years x 12, which comprise the Great Year of 25,920 years. The constellations appear to slowly rotate around the earth, rising behind the sun on the vernal equinox. We are in transition out of the sign of the fish, an emotional water sign, represented by Jesus being the Fisher of Men, indicative of Christianity’s 2000 year influence. Edgar Cayce in his trance work back in the 1930’s stated Jesus’s actual birth was the last day of Pisces, (the fish symbolically representing Christianity,) March 20, the last day of the last sign. Makes more sense when seen through this lens. (December 25th was Mithras the Bull’s birthday; the Bull cult was a huge religion at the time; an easy transition for the church to create new converts and followers into Christianity by making the birthdays the same. I mean seriously, who would put a newborn in a barn at the start of winter? Just sayin.’)

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The Piscean era has been a cycle of bloodshed and war, killing, rape and tortures. This is probably another reason Jesus, an enlightened soul, came to usher in the cycle to help mitigate some of the atrocities foreseen from the cosmic astral levels. Unfortunately it didn’t unfold that way, instead sliding into debachery, manipulation, disempowerment and incredible negativity.

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From my perspective this cycle from a historical overview is analogous to the Yellow Ray frequency represented in our Soul Rays, (See “Soul Rays: Discover the Vibratory Frequency of Your Soul” for more information) vibrating energetically to our third chakra, the seat of will power, self esteem, empowerment and disempowerment. This is something everyone on the planet is working through currently. Third chakra challenges show up every single time with every single person; self esteem, confidence, essentially “I am enough.” Pisces and the warrior Yellow Ray line-up perfectly as symbols of this passing cycle. The good news is it’s passing. Perhaps the next cycle of Pisces will see the unfoldment of the mystical and magical energies Pisces represents symbolically instead of its shadow attributes.

Many have heard the term moving into our hearts, a tool for understanding and appreciating our emotions, distancing ourselves from our overriding egos. This is a major key to the ascension process (read “The Ascension: The Probability of Humanity’s Separation and the Imminent Golden Age,”) guiding our paths and ushering us into the golden age defined by the transition from the Yellow Ray into the heart-centered Green Ray. This translates symbolically to the loving Green Ray energetically lighting up the earth, the Ray of our hearts, the frequency of relationships with all things, all life – essentially with oodles of love. Combine this nurturing Green Ray with an astrological influential attendance the next 2160 year cycle by Aquarius, the sign of cosmic and expansive thinking, global consciousness, the good of peoplekind and futuristic developments to supplement and aid positive progression… And we get Magic!

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What is so exciting about this combination of energies is the Head/Aquarius-and-Heart/Green Ray combo-dance of loving intellectualism, intuition and expansive intelligence. This is simply the best powerhouse of married complexities, attributes, patterns, beliefs and energies. Just imagine this cosmic wallpaper’s patterns symbolically reflecting these loving energies to the earth, showering glittering green stardust specifically to each and every one of us, the possibilities of creating our lives everyday, with the universe’s assistance mirrored in the skies, our head-and-hearts combined, creating/manifesting our relationships, our careers/passions/ our optimum health throughout our lives. It’s exciting as hell.

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And it’s here. This combo-dance of Head-and-Heart has joined…is the beginning of the divine marriage. Yes, we are in the beginning stages of the shift into Aquarius and the Green Ray, but none-the-less, it has definitely begun. We are part of this next grand shift. We can accelerate the process by using our heads combined with open hearts in everything, every choice, decision and turn in the road. Be actively aligned with the Green Aquarian Ray. Be the Shift.

As Above, So Below.

 

Cosmic sunshine to you.

 

 

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“The Ascension: The Probability of Humanity’s Separation and the Imminent Golden Age”

Ascension: The act of rising to an important position or a higher level.

I just read a blog about one person‘s perspective on the Ascension process. She has been actively integrated in this belief of the evolving human/earth consciousness, emotionally, physically and psychically for two decades. She has sustained many hardships and pain to do this. She like many light workers, has worked extensively in this arena projecting positive light ahead  for the future of humanity into the new Golden Age. There is one hiccup: As per her profession, she has from my perspective, carried this job like a heavy cross, the weight of the world on her shoulders, with her observations and views the correct version. That’s a tough job with a very weighty burden to bear –bare– as in ‘naked’ as in ‘alone.’ Her belief is 76% of the earth is evil and 24% is good. The good of the world is separating to create a new earth, a new world. They are ascending to a higher plane of existence. The lower vibrating earth will no longer ‘be.’ Since it will no longer be supported by ‘Upper Management’ this old negative, hateful, conniving, earth will simply disappear, no longer exist.

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First of all, my love and support goes out to her so she doesn’t feel she’s alone in the physical. That’s a rough road. “No man is an island,” as John Donne so succinctly stated.  Second of all, I have a slightly different take on our evolving human consciousness.

This is my belief. You can take it in, agree, throw it out. Whatever works. We each get to have our own belief system, our own parameters. Work with our own experiences to fill our hearts and minds.

I believe we are holograms, individual realities that work together under the overarching theme – construct – of humanity, much like cells in our bodies. Each cell carries the divine blueprint of the body yet is singularly its own identity, a fractal of the whole. Like us. Each of us is our own reality, a fractal of the larger universe, yet linked together as male and female representatives of the human species, connected to the divine purpose of expansion. We as the creators of our own biosphere, have the ability to manifest our experiences, our realities, under the auspices of higher integration; “auspices” meaning under the authority of our cosmic contract, with Universal Consciousnesss endorsement. Our goal, our job is to expand consciously and co-create as humanity with the cosmos. Nothing is out of order even though from our earthly view, all we see is unbridled chaos. Remember though, we have all chosen unequivocally, to be here…now.

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With that being said, we are exactly where we are supposed to be as every moment has led us to this second. We are evolving, albeit slowly, but we definitely are.

Understanding scientific principles of quantum mechanics, “Where we put our focus creates our realities,” is the cornerstone of evolution, how we expand, experience, grow. If we continue to direct our attention to all the negatives on every level we will continue to create more of the same. Therefore by directing our attention to the darkness, to those 76% “sad and depraved” souls who generate the hatred and vile corruption, we continue to help them/us do more of the same. Personally, I feel those supposed “76%,” are souls living in the absence of love, if we run with that particular number which I do not, and when shown better options, choices and directions will eventually choose a better path. Therefore in my scenario, there is no obliteration, just perhaps a longer road. I believe we need to reach out to all souls in love. Period. We don’t have to stay there, live in that environment however we can extend graciousness, kindness and most importantly, love.

We have the ability every single second to spin off positives realities. As several quantum physicists have postulated, there are 10 to the 100x power number of infinite probabilities.  We can also choose to stay in fear, worry and negatives: different probability factors and outcomes. Our choice. What this says through scientific intuition is we all can create this higher ascended reality –  though for some it might come later; but it will. Period. I do not believe for one single second – that a part of creation, a part of the magic of the universe – will simply disappear, no longer exist. That goes against science as well; all energy exits and can transform its composition and location but it doesn’t disappear: Energy Is. This obliteration postulation simply goes against all levels of divinity, not too mention science.  Besides when we go into that belief system – “I’m right, you’re wrong,” 25% or so of awakened population will ascend, the rest disappear, we step into judgement.

There is no wrong or right, just undeniably better choices

To ascend is to raise our own vibrations, our energy sphere, choosing through love and thought, self reflection, growth and change to be our best. It’s a simple course of action yet indelibly difficult to attain and obtain mainly because we have not been taught. And if we have been shown, as through the various teachings enlightened souls have taught throughout the ages, it gets thwarted, convoluted, poisoned and misrepresented. So, coming to full understanding of the co-creative process is a bit muddled and slow, yet we are in progress. I have faith.

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Do I believe there will be a huge breaking off of humanity, one to prosper, one to be eliminated? No. Do I believe in junctures, separations, splits in directions, and various pathways and probabilities? Absolutely. Will these various timelines eventually converge? Converge and commingle at a higher state and level of consciousness? Yes. I believe strongly, we personally can create the world we desire, ascend to a higher plane. I also believe loving every single living energy field is the doorway, the portal to achieve this location, this vibration in the cosmos. For me, there is no other path.

 

Cosmic ascension to you. ☀️

 

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“7 Steps to Activate Your Best Potential: Your Awaiting Superhero is Ready”

People are who they are. Not their potential. Their potential is yet to be realized, awakened. It’s up to us to step into that field of potentiality to create what we sense on the edges of our periphery; we know it’s there but don’t know quite how to access it.

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Perhaps it time to make it happen? To Step into our greater parts of ourselves, into our best potentials? It doesn’t matter if we are 15, 45 or 75- we are timeless beings. And Now is the best time as in truth that’s all there is.

Question is: How do we access that swirling energy of possibities that surrounds us always?

1. Believe in the possibility of your greater potential. In other words, don’t limit your beliefs.

2. Examine limiting views, perspectives, beliefs on why you can’t achieve this or obtain that or attract more and be such and such. Write them down. Be honest with yourself. It’s time to Man/Woman Up and be real.

3. Begin discarding one belief or view regularly by changing your actions around it, in other words ~ Be the Opposite of the Belief ~ such as “I’m not a good golfer” by practicing daily — thinking/believing this is so worth it, “I am Doing this!” — if only putting in your backyard: Become the expert. Or “I’m not good enough or pretty enough,” by diving into something you’ve always wanted to learn/discover, essentially expanding your knowledge base, to getting a new haircut, buying something flattering for your body type and spiffing things up a bit. Think the change. Fake it till you make it by actively rewriting your dialogue and learning, experiencing, doing, being.  “Be the Change.”

4. In the meantime, begin and end your day by going beyond your normal routine and see, feel, sense this Potentiality Field around you. See yourself in the middle of it. Learn how to describe your feelings, your senses when you’re ‘there,’ by writing them down, practicing daily.

5. Draw to you this elusive powerfully positive potential energy that surrounds you like a cape, over your body hugging you warmly — pulling the feeling, the frequency (put colors to it) into your being like an electrical vibration — a current pulsing through your body — generating fuel — your kryptonite — your special superpower.  Using golf as our example, visualize this vibration coursing through your body, mind, hands, vision, swing, follow- through every time you golf till it becomes so second nature, you are the golf club, you are the ball.

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6. You can do this with anything you desire from singing to dance to speaking/communicating to creating a great job/career to a partner. You’re becoming all you can be. When this happens “You Are the Change,” your own superhero.

7. Having stepped into your highest potential, servicing the world through benevolent acts becomes your mantra.

 

To our Superheroes within us all.

 

Cosmic sunshine to you.☀️

 

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“The Evolution Revolution: What is Your Part?”

Just returned from vacation. It was a well needed getaway to replenish the internal cupboards and emotional wells. We explored parts of the south, country I’ve never been to – in this life. The history is rich with multiple players, stories thick with details. It was intriguing to go with an open mind, my intuitive senses high, inviting parallel timelines and connections into consciousness.

There is a beautiful large plantation called Middleton in South Carolina. It was one of 13 plantations the Middleton family owned. They were the wealthiest family in the south, their explosive financial resources originated from business in Barbados, initiating the family’s huge expansion in the southern colonies. Henry Middleton acquired the land and this estate through his marriage in 1741. He subsequently became the second president of the First Continental Congress. His son Arthur was an ardent revolutionary and succeeded his father in the next continental Congress and was a signer of the Declaration of Independence. His son Henry became the governor of South Carolina and a minister to Russia and his son Williams was the signer of the Ordinance of Succession five years before the Civil War engulfed Middleton Place.

On tour through the main house were photos of the four founding Middleton men; I stared intently at their faces feeling the deep historical connective threads and knew beyond a shadow, Arthur was a friend, confidant and a fellow revolutionary. It anchored and validated my experience in the Revolutionary war. It made me laugh out loud reaffirming my political views about America today. When you are personally involved in a revolution of high proportion, extricating yourself from a mother country of exorbitant taxation, it becomes part of your blood, becomes part of your karmic trail. It speaks loudly as to why I am adamantly against the direction of our current socialistic leanings. It was a wonderful comic and life-affirming connection. It will make more intuitive and intellectual sense when I speak more ardently about a Government run financially amok- 19 trillion in DEBT and counting- and with high corruption. Back in the late 1700s who would’ve thought that only 200 plus years later we would’ve come to this teetering point of complete financial bankruptcy. As the old saying goes, “Absolute power corrupts absolutely,” thus the lack of leadership in DC. Why change the power status when it benefits those implementing the rules, regulations and taxes?

Have you ever asked yourself which historical time frames draw your awareness and heartstrings? These are strong indicators of personal expressions and experiences, emotional ties to people and landscape. I have always had leanings towards (in the near recent U.S. history as an example) the Revolutionary war, nothing rattles my cage about the war of 1812 or the Civil War, the first World War absolutely, I am dialed in from multiple levels, several personalities and experiences. World War II, inspires me not emotionally, however I am aware intellectually. I believe we go through time frames in groups. We skip time segments opening “literal space” for souls in need of that particular set of circumstances in that time experience. We are all gathered at this time frame together as a unit, as a grouping of conscious cells/souls to awaken a new probability. We all chose this, every one of us.

America’s in need of a revolution, thus my choice being alive today. We need an “evolution revolution” in thinking and evolving our emotional and spiritual selves into a higher consciousness state. I believe and KNOW this is definitely taking place globally in pockets of forward engineering and invention frosted with goodness, reinforcing my positive belief in humanity even with Isis sneaking around in the darkness. Seeing Arthur Middleton’s fiercely intellectual focused visage once again reaffirms my knowing.

I believe unequivocally, that both Ron Paul and his son Rand, were also part of The Revolution. That’s why they are true authentic, corroborative members of the Republic, ardent supporters of the Constitution and Declaration of Independence. They too were a part of that journey – my buddies and pals- vigorously involved in the continuing saga today.

Invitation: to pay attention and follow your heartstrings combined with intellectual experience. Watch the players, feel the truths and untruths. This opens the door into “evolution revolution.”

Addendum: I wrote this in 2015 while Barack Obama was president. Intuitively, contrary to what is publicly being presented, I feel strongly many positive things are at play to erode the Deep State and control of the global Illuminati. We are definitely moving into the Light; in fact there are many direct spotlights now hitting various places on the planet. I Believe in the highest good for all and feel strongly we are on course for that evolution.

Cosmic evolving sunshine to you.

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“Love Is the Answer but What is the Question?”

And the question is….drumroll please….

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”Why? Why isn’t love enough?”

On the major Love Day of the year, why question “Why isn’t love enough?” What’s your point? Love bliss is wonderful, awesome, right? Because Valentine’s Day is the perfect day to ask, observe and discern the answer. When we do, we can change the question. Today is the special national/global day of Love awareness.  We take a break from our demands and expectations, put aside our differences and focus on the love bliss of possibilities. They’re real by the way.💕

We reach inside ourselves, into our connections and relationships and see the best in each and everyone. That is truly the answer. But the question, “Why isn’t love enough?”  arises out of the quagmire of daily lives, when love isn’t the panacea for everything. When responsibilities override the love, where demands take full frontal attention, and our dedication and devotion to our loved ones takes a backseat. When that happens love isn’t enough to override the daily situations as our focus has wavered. Our focus of seeing and feeling the best in each other. We get cranky, resentful and eventually distant.

But the truth is, love is the answer. Always is. 💕

 

If every day were a Love Day, where our attention(s) to our partners, family and friends were laserbeamed with love, high regard, respect, honesty, support, dedication, open direct dialogue, kindness, positive attitude, understanding, balance, humor, awareness and appreciation – essentially seeing the very best in each other – imagine the possibilities!! Oh what love bliss there would be!?!  It would be Cupid’s fairytale, his heaven. He and Pysche would rejoice.

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So the real question is, “Why don’t we celebrate everyday as Love Day?”

Because we get lazy, essentially falling off our mark, lose focus and our aim, shooting vital love arrows off target into a myriad of distractions.

We create our reality. We create our stories. We all desire daily Love Day where we regard and honor and love one another. Each and everyone. So why not stop bitching and complaining about politics and governments and traffic and global warming and the sky falling in and essentially each other, and raise our aims high? Shoot love arrows instead of vitriolic hate? We can literally change the world when we do. It begins with each of us every single moment of every single LOVE day.

Because LOVE was and IS always the answer.

 

 

Cosmic sunshine to you.

 

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“Reminiscing”

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I was reminiscing…

We rendezvoused in the rugged alpine 

at that renowned romantic inn known for

it’s ritzy understated highland charm.

You strode in, rugged and rakish 

with that evocative look that said everything 

yet revealed nothing.

I recall the radiant smile that transformed your features

to reassuring and receptive;

my reflective mood assuaged, I relaxed a bit.

I resolved that no matter how refined, robust and rousing you were,

I would be rational and reasonable in the swell of your raffishness.

My resolve though real, dissolved the moment your eyes met mine.

You said I looked ravishing and resplendent in my ruby-rich dress

and rewarded me with a soft revealing kiss.

Your emotions rarely seen were laid bare.

 

 

Another taste of my ‘alphabet soup’ word explorations.

This one is for St Valentine: “He’s breaking hearts all over town.” (Reckless Kelly)

 

Cosmic sunshine to you.

 

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