Category Archives: Sex

“The Activation Point: How to Create Optimal Mental Foreplay”

Posted on October 17, 2018 by Candia Sanders

The alarm blares startling you out of a deep warm happy slumber. You reach groggily for the button to turn the damn thing off, or push the snooze button for another blissful ten. It’s the Activation Point, the moment the … Continue reading →

Posted in Brain Functions, Cosmic Tidbits, Energy healing, Good Vibes, healing tools, Healing, Health, Spiritual Concepts, health, Intimacy, intuitive knowing, psychic insights, relationships, Sex, Stress and crisis | Tagged Easy stress reducing method, foreplay, immediate stress, Intimacy, job stress, parental stress, Relationships, Sex, stress reduction techniques, Stress Relief | 3 Comments

“Happily Ever After”

Posted on September 17, 2018 by Candia Sanders

Okay. I admit it. I was raised on Cinderella, Snow White and all those happily ever after Disney films that made every young’s girl heart flutter with possibilities. I grew up with those romantic ideals and love notions compactly stored … Continue reading →

Posted in Cosmic Tidbits, Good Vibes, Healing, Healing, Health, Spiritual Concepts, Intimacy, intuitive knowing, Learned Behaviors, Love and Romance, observation, psychic insights, relationships, Sex, Truth | Tagged Beliefs, divorce, fairy tales, idealized love, Intimacy, Love, Marriage, Partners, partnership, Relationships, Romance, Sex, true love, Values | Leave a comment

“Seriously, I’ve Heard it All”

Posted on September 8, 2018 by Candia Sanders

You might think I’m fibbing or a bit off with my title statement, but it’s pretty true. In my world, people are open and willing to share their darkest truths, revelations and stories. Honestly I don’t care what people have … Continue reading →

Posted in Conscious Death, Cosmic Tidbits, Death and Dying, Good Vibes, Healing, healing tools, Healing, Health, Spiritual Concepts, hidden Agendas, Intimacy, intuitive knowing, Intuitive Listening, observation, psychic insights, relationships, Sex, Stress and crisis, Truth | Tagged Addictions, bad behaviors, Blame, entities, failures, Fear, Good choices, Infidelity, Multiple sex partners, murder, Not being loveable, orgies, regrets, repiltians, satanism, sex trade, shame, UFO’s | 2 Comments

“E”

Posted on September 4, 2018 by Candia Sanders

Evocative musings… engage my thoughts of late scent of enticing behavior exploring earthy environs music erotically stimulating the taste exquisite exciting yet enigmatic… the mind wanders remembering an old love. We shared enthralling escapades in exotic places We were euphoric … Continue reading →

Posted in Cosmic Tidbits, Good Vibes, healing tools, Intimacy, Love and Romance, Poems, Poetry, relationships, Sex | Tagged erotic, europe, memories, old love, poems, poetry, Relationships, reminiscing, travel, Writing | 2 Comments

“If You Had Your Druthers…?”

Posted on August 13, 2018 by Candia Sanders

Druthers. It’s a funny word. My late husband used to ask me with a twinkle in his eye, “What the hell is a Druther? That doesn’t even sound like a word.” Well it is. The actual definition is “our personal … Continue reading →

Posted in Cosmic Tidbits, Family, Good Vibes, Healing, healing tools, Healing, Health, Spiritual Concepts, Health, Intuitive Listening, Love and Romance, psychic insights, Sex, Spiritual Concepts, Spiritual wellness, Stress and crisis, Truth | Tagged daring confidence, Desires, fast cars, harleys, Life’s Supra Highway, maps and apps, Opinions, other's opinions, Preferences, Sex, travel, Travel pass, What calls your name, What feels best | 2 Comments

“Spiked Anticipation: What is Yours? Your Body Knows the Answer Every Time”

Posted on July 11, 2018 by Candia Sanders

Here’s a question. Have you ever considered what truly gets your blood boiling-excited enough to spike your heart rate not-quite-over-the-edge but close? With the advent of FitBit and Garmins and all the other units available to monitor our vitals we … Continue reading →

Posted in Cosmic Tidbits, Good Vibes, healing tools, Healing, Health, Spiritual Concepts, health, Intuitive Listening, psychic insights, relationships, Sex, Spiritual Concepts, Spiritual wellness | Tagged adrenaline, Anticipation, brain bliss, excitement, fishing, happy highs, harley, heart pounding, Hiking, motorcycling, Sex, Skiing, Zen | Leave a comment

“Our Cosmic Life Theses: What Are Yours?”

Posted on June 5, 2018 by Candia Sanders

Have you ever thought about your overall life theme? Your life thesis? What you came here to learn, do, be? Because you do have one, or several or better yet, multiple emotional life exercises and dissertations to embrace, embody and … Continue reading →

Posted in Cosmic Tidbits, Death and Dying, Good Vibes, Grief, Healing, healing tools, Healing, Health, Spiritual Concepts, intuitive knowing, Intuitive Listening, Love and Romance, Money and finances, observation, psychic insights, relationships, Sex, Spiritual Concepts, Stress and crisis | Tagged Communication, Creativity, empowerment, family dynamics, Infidelity, intellect, Intuition, Life themes, life thesis, loving heart centered, monogamy, narcissistic, self centered, Sex, value and integrity, Wisdom | 3 Comments

“The Experiences that Define Us or Not: Rape in a Co-Ed Toilette”

Posted on May 9, 2018 by Candia Sanders

We are a sum total of our experiences. Period. Everything we think, believe, act upon, are from our experiences. Experiences: 1. Noun: practical contact with and observation of facts or events. 2. Verb: encounter or undergo (an event or occurrence). It’s … Continue reading →

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“Cleavage, Clits, Cannes and Cocks”

Posted on April 30, 2018 by Candia Sanders

Bold right? But I’m just saying it the way it is. We are living in an interesting sexual paradigm, where the MeToo movement is jettisoning across the country for obvious reasons, executives are stepping down under public pressure juxtaposed against … Continue reading →

Posted in Cosmic Tidbits, Healing, intuitive knowing, Learned Behaviors, News, observation, Politics, psychic insights, relationships, Sex, Truth | Tagged balance between the sexes, Cannes film festival, femininity, Irony, masculinity, Media, MeFirst Movement, news, sexual harassment, Sexuality, ties and suits | Leave a comment

‘A Romance Re-Boot”

Posted on April 2, 2018 by Candia Sanders

Spring-time. Sunshine, happiness, movement. Fresh beginnings, like new buds shooting through the soul. (auto-correct, “soul” was to be soil. Did it twice. Perfect, right?) Cupid and Pan’s love arrows shooting through our hearts, our souls. How does falling-in-love with your … Continue reading →