“For Everything There is a Season”

 

Another season wrapped up. Already.  Time moves so quickly, I feel it in my bones how essential it is to value each moment, each day, every week. Put this into perspective: time. Mt St Helens blew her gorgeous top 38 years ago. Already. I remember the day it happened; May 18th. I was living in Salem and could see the blowing ash plumes cascading across the sky. What a monumental North American event.

This is the Lewis river today. My St Helen’s boulders, sand and silt loaded the local rivers like a tsunami, catastrophic destruction in the wake. Today, 38 year’s later this area of the river is normally under the waters of Swift Reservoir,  yet due the lateness of the season, the Corp has drained-the-swamp as the old saying goes, gearing for winter’s onslaught. You can see Helen’s sand still covering the river bed, creating a delta extending the beach to the west. In fact, this area where Charlie the wonder dog and I are walking added enough sand, silt and ash in 1980 to raise the lake bottom by 40 feet making it shallower and more hazardous for boats. There’s an area I call the graveyard as it’s filled with fishing line, hooks and paraphernalia having gotten caught in the old tree stumps that are right below the surface. When the water is low, the area in front of my off-grid cabin looks like beach frontage.

Because of low water levels, people seeking recreation have been scarce. Not that there are ever a lot, it’s fairly unpopulated. This year more so making my off-grid living extra quiet and peaceful. It’s been phenomenal for the wild life too. The eagles, hawks, cranes, ducks, geese, otters and myriads of other species are more prolific. There has been a goose crying distressfully several nights for her mate who hadn’t returned to their rendezvous point. It was quite sad. She has subsequently flown to warmer meadows.

Due to my connectedness with nature I can empathize and feel the emotions of the various species. Trust me other than the reptiles and amphibians they feel, they love, they grieve. Every piece of creation has consciousness!  I believe with every cell in my body if and when humankind actually works, connects and communicates with the various levels of nature we can turn this planet around environmentally. Earth is an abundant planet.  If there’s scarcity it’s because we’ve created it, made it so with our beliefs, when in fact, there’s enough for everyone. There’s no need for greed.

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I hang out in nature, fearless. I’m alone 90% other than my fab furry friends. Moving back into society is great and wonderful however my heart is already embracing when I can return again next spring.

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Mt St Helen’s is right behind me beyond the ridge. I can see her strong ridges, crevasses, glaciers and lahar’s from the hill I climb in the photo above and from the waters of the Lewis.

My invite: hang with the trees and rocks and creeks and rivers. The wildlife. Listen. Ask for connection. It’s essential we all learn to communicate with nature, not just a few of us out-there people. Remember everything has consciousness. Even if it’s a local park, make it a priority. We can change the planet when we do.

 

Cosmic sunshine to you☀️

PS: My vet told me Charlie is living on love and in my view duck tape and magic. He’s 12, blind, has had auto immune since he was 1. And he’s still going. He’s a wonder! ❤️

 

Candia Sanders is an international medical intuitive, high-frequency energy healer, motivator, speaker, teacher, author, the ultimate optimist, and outdoor enthusiast, who has helped thousands of people ease their medical issues, navigate important relationships and find their soul’s purpose and life direction. Candia, intuitive since early childhood, is the author of the transcendent book, “Soul Rays: Discover the Vibratory Frequency of Your Soul“. She has also written a lively magical and spiritual children’s adventure called “The Adventures of Jack Starr, In Hawaii.” “When Eagles Soar: From Diagnosis, to Death and to Open Dialogue” is her story through cancer and beyond, with her husband who died in 2016. Her goal is to create a new conversation about Death.

Upcoming books: “I Don’t Know, It’s a Mystery: 11 Prompts to Awaken Your Cosmic Connection” ”The Four R’s: Rules to Navigate Life’s Big Questions,” “Head Off, Heart On: Salacious Delights and Tantalizing Treats for Happy Relationships”

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“Happily Ever After”

Okay. I admit it. I was raised on Cinderella, Snow White and all those happily ever after Disney films that made every young’s girl heart flutter with possibilities.  I grew up with those romantic ideals and love notions compactly stored inside my heart. I was very discerning along the dating path and kept my sights high, my vision of the prince ever-present in the back reaches of my mind. I met a successful, handsome, Montana man with charm and charisma. We were married, had two sons. Cinderella had a bit of a set-back, the idealized notion of love thwarted and squashed. Eventually I intellectualized my emotions, instead of emotionalizing my intellect. Kept my heart safe. Divorce ensued. I married again, Cinderella once again resurrected. I was crazy-giddy in love, happily ever after written in the stars. Well, that didn’t happen either; life had other plans called cancer.

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Once in a deeply committed relationship I still lean to that romantic Cinderella ideal. Scary right, how deeply rooted stories and myths are imbedded into our psyches? My psyche, my belief patterns. I have visions of the love-link being so strong there is no room for a wandering eye, the relationship being the center of the love fulcrum, sex and intimacy a driving force, an alchemical union of thought and form. An intuitive intellectual pursuit of expansion mirroring each other, holding each to their best. I know. I’ve experienced this. 

Here’s the best twist. I still believe in happily ever after. Why not? Just because there have been other life lessons along the way there’s absolutely no reason I (we) can’t create happily ever after. I believe our fairy tales, stories and myths are reminders life is supposed to be happy, merry, rich-in-love, with happily ever after written all over them. However, this is the fundamental chapter that got left out of the fairy tales: we are the creator’s of our own story, our fable. When we take complete responsibility for our lives in every quadrant, (when we are Response-Able) we then are fully empowered to step up to our highest ideals. We become pro-active in the process. Everything along the way takes on heightened color, our senses alert and alive to the beauty and magnificence of the ride. We fall in love with life. Our happily ever after becomes reality. And if we choose to open-up to a one-on-one relationship again, a partner with the same ideals, values and beliefs (*when we are in alignment with our cosmic selves, the grander part of our essence) arrives in our kingdoms to share happily ever after no matter our juncture or decade.

Grab that pen, write your weekly fairy tale. Seek that true love within, seeing life in all its glory. Believe like I do, that fairy tales really do exist and come true.

Happily ever after begins right now!

 

Cosmic sunshine to you.

 

*Being in alignment with ourselves and the cosmic essence within is the vital and even critical piece to creating the best love match we desire, otherwise we attract an unbalanced relationship. As always it begins with us!

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“Seriously, I’ve Heard it All”

You might think I’m fibbing or a bit off with my title statement, but it’s pretty true. In my world, people are open and willing to share their darkest truths, revelations and stories. Honestly I don’t care what people have done, it’s their story, as long as their actions, thoughts and intent are honest, true and congruent with their heart, their inner core. Their soul. Therein lies the hiccup. Too many lie to themselves.

I’ve dealt with death, murder, embezzlement, infidelity, mutilple sex partners from 2-6 to orgy, to the sex trade, satanic mutilations on children, reptilians, other-worldly energies trapped in human physicality, drug abuse/heavy addictions, psychic hitchhikers, entities, UFO abductees, partners watching their spouse having sex with someone else, obesity, self mutilation, suicide. What am I forgetting? I have stories. Most people’s stories are tame in comparison. Bottom line is everyone wants to be happy with themselves, with life, with the world. Happy with their choices, no shame, no blame, no resentments, angers or hurts. Ironically if you really get to the core of any of it, all of it, the motivation behind the behavior is essential to understand, to ferret out, to make sense of the story. What motivates people to do the things they do? The things their moral compass knows are pointing them due cattywhampus?

Usually it’s fear ironically. The fear of not being enough, the fear of being looked at as a wimp, a sissy, not man enough, woman enough, sexually avant-garde enough, not rich enough, successful enough, beautiful enough, fear of being left, fear of not being lovable, of wanting to prove they’re something, someone special, getting hooked into the wrong behaviors to convince themselves they are. On the surface perhaps they believe it to be true.

On the side for a moment, as I went through the agonizing decline of my husband and hearing about his disillusionments, his mistakes, failures, regrets, he faced a great deal of himself, of his inner demons, dove into self-reflection in that cancer-time, looked straight-on at on his behaviors and choices. He had huge regrets. He made decisions on what he’d do differently next go round, next life.  Don’t wait till that dying moment to change what truly madly deeply curls your toes, no matter your age. Do it! Do it now! Go for what you dream, desire. Don’t follow the crowd. Carve your own path. Make good directional choices. Step away from things that are not you, not true to your core. 💕

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If people can live happily knowing “everything – everyone” was happy with the story, bad choices and poor behaviors, all directions good bad and otherwise, everyone came out fine with the consequences and aftermath – then it’s great. No need for re-do’s or behavior changes. No upgrades. Maybe?

An example:

I recently rewatched Jack Nicholson in “As Good as It Gets.”  He took time for self reflection, something critical to evolution, and came to discover all the women, the huge number he’d slept with, were actually not as happy with him as he’d thought, didn’t think of him as the Greek God, the Casanova, he thought himself to be. It was incredibly revealing for him. So he changed course.

Again, no judgements. The key is having everyone onboard, good with behaviors, where everything is copesetic.

Ironically, like I said, I don’t care what people have done, (especially if they’re internally congruent with the intent and actions and heart motivation) unless they become part of my inner circle, then it changes, I change. My expectations change. I expect people to step up their game, be more if who they are. Be their best. I mean honestly, isn’t that why we are here? To live up to our highest potential? Okay, I’m driven. Probably because I see farther than most, sense more. My story, not yours, not putting that on you.

I apologize to my sons for the huge expectations I have put on them. 

The key with that is, we each have our own highest ideals and yours might not be mine. Or mine not be yours. I tend to push, be focused constantly on the bigger picture, the larger dynamic. I expect a LOT out of people. To learn, grow, expand. Be creative.  Be Conscious. Now that’s not fair of me to push my ideals, my moral compass on anyone so I don’t. I listen instead, guiding others to find their light source within, to follow their heart to their highest ideal, not mine. We are all different sparks in the firecracker.

Just know though, I will encourage, invite, entice, kick you in the arse, to be the best you came here to be, whatever that looks like.

Especially in my inner circles.

Cosmic sunshine to you.

Candia Sanders is an international medical intuitive, high-frequency energy healer, motivator, speaker, teacher, author, the ultimate optimist, and outdoor enthusiast, who has helped thousands of people ease their medical issues, navigate important relationships and find their soul’s purpose and life direction. Candia, intuitive since early childhood, is the author of the transcendent book, “Soul Rays: Discover the Vibratory Frequency of Your Soul“. She has also written a lively magical and spiritual children’s adventure called “The Adventures of Jack Starr, In Hawaii.” “When Eagles Soar: From Diagnosis, to Death and to Open Dialogue” is her story through cancer and beyond, with her husband who died in 2016. Her goal is to create a new conversation about Death.

Upcoming books: “I Don’t Know, It’s a Mystery: 11 Prompts to Awaken Your Cosmic Connection” ”The Four R’s: Rules to Navigate Life’s Big Questions,” “Head Off, Heart On: Salacious Delights and Tantalizing Treats for Happy Relationships”

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“E”

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Evocative musings…

engage my thoughts of late

scent of enticing behavior

exploring earthy environs

music erotically stimulating

the taste exquisite 

exciting 

yet enigmatic…

the mind wanders

remembering an old love.

We shared enthralling escapades

in exotic places

We were euphoric 

ecstatic in love with love,

All of which were enchanting

a long time ago.

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More from my “ABC’s of Being Human” project. This is an excerpt from the E category. I’d recommend going into the dictionary and writing a short quip or poem or story focusing on the letter of your choice as a mental and creative exercise to push those dendrites around. Ironically if you’re in a bad space choose N or O as there are a lot of derogatory human behavioral words waiting to amp the negativity, share the mad highway or sadness that’s in need of capturing. Personally I prefer the happier letters.

 

Cosmic sunshine to you. ☀️

 

Candia Sanders is an international medical intuitive, high-frequency energy healer, motivator, speaker, teacher, author, the ultimate optimist, and outdoor enthusiast, who has helped thousands of people ease their medical issues, navigate important relationships and find their soul’s purpose and life direction. Candia, intuitive since early childhood, is the author of the transcendent book, “Soul Rays: Discover the Vibratory Frequency of Your Soul“. She has also written a lively magical and spiritual children’s adventure called “The Adventures of Jack Starr, In Hawaii.” “When Eagles Soar: From Diagnosis, to Death and to Open Dialogue” is her story through cancer and beyond, with her husband who died in 2016. Her goal is to create a new conversation about Death.

Upcoming books: “I Don’t Know, It’s a Mystery: 11 Prompts to Awaken Your Cosmic Connection” ”The Four R’s: Rules to Navigate Life’s Big Questions,” “Head Off, Heart On: Salacious Delights and Tantalizing Treats for Happy Relationships”

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“Moonstruck”

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Moon beams magnify 

 night magic

mitigating my mortality.

I meditate on the metaphysical 

mysterious 

 light in darkness

feeling masterful and multiloquent

talking to nightjars and fireflies

my words meticulous.

My mood now mercurial

I’m mesmerized in magnificence

moonstruck before the dawn.

 

 

I’m reviving an old project called the ABC’s of Being Human. We have over a million words in the English language yet currently there are only around 150,000 words in play. I thought it’d be a fun challenge to pull out some old gems and create within each particular letter different encouragements, visuals and mantras, thus Moonstruck, loaded with ‘M’s.’

 

Cosmic sunshine to you.

 

Candia Sanders is an international medical intuitive, high-frequency energy healer, motivator, speaker, teacher, author, the ultimate optimist, and outdoor enthusiast, who has helped thousands of people ease their medical issues, navigate important relationships and find their soul’s purpose and life direction. Candia, intuitive since early childhood, is the author of the transcendent book, “Soul Rays: Discover the Vibratory Frequency of Your Soul“. She has also written a lively magical and spiritual children’s adventure called “The Adventures of Jack Starr, In Hawaii.” “When Eagles Soar: From Diagnosis, to Death and to Open Dialogue” is her story through cancer and beyond, with her husband who died in 2016. Her goal is to create a new conversation about Death.

Upcoming books: “I Don’t Know, It’s a Mystery: 11 Prompts to Awaken Your Cosmic Connection” ”The Four R’s: Rules to Navigate Life’s Big Questions,” “Head Off, Heart On: Salacious Delights and Tantalizing Treats for Happy Relationships”

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“Want to Solve Our Environmental Problems? Here’s How””

We live in a construct of our own creation though most don’t recognize this vital piece. The coolest news is science is proving via the quantum physics highway we have the ability to effect the nature of reality by our thoughts creating the experiences, the physicality of our bodies, our relationships, homes, the environment, essentially the world we live in. There is also a larger context within this framework that is imperative to understanding the nature of reality which adds the frosting:

Everything in the Cosmic Fabric of Reality has Consciousness. Everything. 

To negate this contradicts the aliveness, the purpose of the planet within the universe. To separate consciousness or spirit from form, cancels the the co-creative process of the cosmos. This was understood by earlier inhabitants of the planet and is still valued by the indigenous peoples worldwide, however this vital piece of knowledge and wisdom has been literally obliterated and squashed from our beliefs. This is why we are in the predicament we are in. We have simply separated ourselves from the spirit, the consciousness, the teeming aliveness of everything. This is our great Fall from Grace.

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Mankind is completely arrogant in its belief we are in control, more powerful, dominant. That is simply not the truth. We are but one species in a matrix of many. When we learn to co-create together in harmony with nature, animals, with the earth herself, we will literally change the negativity, the environmental disasters. If we were to begin this process today we could effectively change the direction of the planet within the next decade. By 2030 we could have the world cleaned-up and whole. What a concept right?

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However mankind has to get off it’s self-imposed podium of arrogant control and dominance.

There are pockets of people already doing this, however to make the changes we need from neutralizing catastrophic pollution, to nuclear waste, to fires, tsunamis, earthquakes you name it, we have to do it unilaterally together starting now.

But beliefs would have to radically change: Acknowledging there is life, consciousness in everything, is the foundational shift necessary. From there it’s learning how to communicate between the layers of consciousness no differently than learning French, German, Japanese. And is absolutely possible – I know! Because I do.

I recently taught a class on the consciousness of nature, teaching people how to communicate with the four elements, or building blocks of the planet: earth, water, fire and air. The results were pivotal, consciousness changing, belief altering. New doorways opened within the communication highway, the fabric between the worlds bending, shifting, weaving sparks of light, of hope.

This is a call to awakening the inner knowing within you that’s always been there, always true, always conscious. It’s time to wake up what’s been dormant inside, like a seed germinating to the grandeur of possibilities. Open up the communication with the fabric of the cosmos.

If you’re interested contact me.

 

Cosmic sunshine to you.

 

Candia Sanders is an international medical intuitive, high-frequency energy healer, motivator, speaker, teacher, author, the ultimate optimist, and outdoor enthusiast, who has helped thousands of people ease their medical issues, navigate important relationships and find their soul’s purpose and life direction. Candia, intuitive since early childhood, is the author of the transcendent book, “Soul Rays: Discover the Vibratory Frequency of Your Soul“. She has also written a lively magical and spiritual children’s adventure called “The Adventures of Jack Starr, In Hawaii.” “When Eagles Soar: From Diagnosis, to Death and to Open Dialogue” is her story through cancer and beyond, with her husband who died in 2016. Her goal is to create a new conversation about Death.

Upcoming books: “I Don’t Know, It’s a Mystery: 11 Prompts to Awaken Your Cosmic Connection” ”The Four R’s: Rules to Navigate Life’s Big Questions,” “Head Off, Heart On: Salacious Delights and Tantalizing Treats for Happy Relationships”

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“The Universal Cocktail: What Is It? And How to Access It”

Don’t you find it interesting that we can quantify the past, remember stories and historical details, dates and events, yet the future is nebulous and flirty, the calendar stretching into infinity with days yet to be filled? In essence the future is a broad – no – make that a very large unknown.  In quantum physics time is an illusion. When we move into that field of potentiality quantum identifies as the creative point of possibilities, time is no longer a factor.

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The reason I bring this up is when it gets down to it we’d all like guarantees, absolutes that our futures are defined, bright with adventure and love, riches and long life. We’d like to look at future details and dates and references and make decisions based on foreknowledge and assurances. It’s why the insurance business is so successful. We plunk money down, gambling against the Come Line, to make sure we are safe from some unknown future disaster versus some yet to be experienced triumphs. Irony. We bet on the negatives rather than counting on the good. In coming at life from this angle, we continue creating some unknown future that feels more like this huge wave of humanity pushing through space and time, rolling forcefully like a tsunami, power hungry, with no clear direction or thought of the destruction or cleansing its creating.

I feel that’s why the anxiety rates are skyrocketing, far out-pacing depression as the number one mental disorder. No future guarantees. Personally I believe anxiety is first emotionally triggered from some form of emotional abandonment, disconnection, fear of loss, lack of love. Stories from this life and alternate timelines we have agreed to explore to expand our soul awareness. From there they become imprinted on a revolving record, spinning in our heads on high, impacting our thinking and most importantly our behaviors. Anxieties can rear their ugly heads like a gorgon in a myriad of  perpetual bad habits, ticks, habitual negative thinking, insecurities, fears of the grandest order. We stay stuck on a merry-go-round of our own creation, our own thinking, never discovering the why’s behind our neurosises.  Bottom line, every disorder in the world is an absence of love. With pure love everything would be in perfect harmony with the music of the cosmos, however that’s not the fabric of this reality. Thus anxiety. The fear of the unknown. We base our lives on what we know to be true or some form of the stories we have told ourselves are true and operate from that premise. We react to situations from our past programming and experiences thereby never living truly in the present.

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Back to quantum physics and love, separate entities, yet they are intricately intertwined as both are the building blocks of the universe. To mitigate anxiety and fear of the unknown, to create that future solidness in a world of gaseous fluidity and gaps, we need to wrap our minds, that eternal part of us, around the field of potentiality, opportunity and timelessness. Out and away from fear. When we step into the field in our minds, and I actually see it as this giant gorgeous field of tall grass and wild flowers, the sky bold blue, mountains on the distant horizon, we are in timelessness. We can create anything we desire. We have to imagine it, see it, believe the possibilities. Next wrap ourselves in the pure feeling of love integrating it into every cell of our being. When these two elements combine there is nothing to fear. The future is now. We create it with every breath. Anxiety dissipates as we orchestrate our lives, our destinies filled with deep love, adventures rich in moments and abundance spilling from our pockets.

The field is available now. Every moment. We just have to envision ourselves there. Visualize, meditate. Feel the space.

Add in the love and we’ve the cocktail of the universe.

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Cosmic sunshine to you.

*A section from my upcoming book, I Don’t Know It’s a Mystery: 11 Prompts to Awaken Your Cosmic Connection.

 

Candia Sanders is an international medical intuitive, high-frequency energy healer, motivator, speaker, teacher, author, the ultimate optimist, and outdoor enthusiast, who has helped thousands of people ease their medical issues, navigate important relationships and find their soul’s purpose and life direction. Candia is the author of the transcendent book, “Soul Rays: Discover the Vibratory Frequency of Your Soul“. She has also written a lively magical and spiritual children’s adventure called “The Adventures of Jack Starr, In Hawaii.” “When Eagles Soar: From Diagnosis, to Death and to Open Dialogue” is her story through cancer and beyond, with her husband who died in 2016. Her goal is to create a new conversation about Death.

Upcoming books: “I Don’t Know, It’s a Mystery: 11 Prompts to Awaken Your Cosmic Connection” ”The Four R’s: Rules to Navigate Life’s Big Questions,” “Head Off, Heart On: Salacious Delights and Tantalizing Treats for Happy Relationships”

 

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“If You Had Your Druthers…?”

Druthers. It’s a funny word. My late husband used to ask me with a twinkle in his eye, “What the hell is a Druther? That doesn’t even sound like a word.” Well it is. The actual definition is “our personal preference about anything.” So just imagine….

If our personal  suitcases were already chock-filled with our most well-defined, specific personal druthers, what would we have in them? What we would fill our bags to the brims with, even to the corners of the suitcase? What are our most vital preferences? Our own unique stamp on the universe?

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Actually this can be a tough question. Far too often we don’t know what our real preferences are, instead opting for other’s opinions and choices over our own. Sometimes they’re actually difficult to define, never having taken the time to dig within ourselves to discover what really makes us tick, happy and cozy and snuggled in under a comforter. We capitulate far too often being pleasers over varying opinions, food, sex, things to do, what we watch, how we do things, where to take vacations, politics, etc etc etc.

This is important. We feel giving into other’s requests, choices and sometimes even demands are the higher principles, our best spiritual path. When in truth, the opposite is true. Yes there are always times to negotiate, compromise and be kindly to someone’s requests, however abandoning our own for the sake of what? Peace, friendship, someone’s opinion of us, in the long run hinders, stagnates growth and eventually erodes the connection, the relationship. Resentment builds, damages and destroys the final emotional vestige between the parties. And/or things just slither away and decay because in truth we gave up our feminine side or our masculinity, essentially our power, to be who we think others want us to be. We each are a blend of both forces, the masculine and feminine principles, and are drawn to, intrigued by, captivated and attracted to those who are balanced within these forces, strong in who they are, those that know their druthers.

When we stick to our feeling preferences – “what feels best,” are clear with who we are, our energetic core amplifies and people are drawn to our persona. They want to share in that delightful energetic confidence we display and entertain. Best bonus is we literally become the people we’d fall in love with. For those single, this is a direct road to having a partner if this is your druther.

So what’s in your Druthers suitcase?

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Mine would and does look like this:

Family and Friends: regular quality time with all members. Deep meaningful, pithy, challenging, caring, witty, insightful, harmonious, communicative, engaging, creative, active, adventurous, and happy. And Loving. That’s a given. These are in very colorful Family and Friend bags ready to pull out on a moment’s notice. Also the old fashioned day-timer is filled with upcoming opportunities and adventures with these loved ones.

Living in the positives versus the negatives- “working towards solutions” rather than mashing over “…and the problems are.” These are woven into the suitcases threads.

Focus on global optimism and good deeds: these are the pocket liners.

Fantastic Health in body mind and spirit: these are imbued into the initial construction of fiber and steel, rubber and leather.

A continuous refilling wallet brimming in coin and dollars to share with those along the road; tucked in leather belt pouch.

Travel: as much as possible for knowledge, experience, historical detail and rich happy memories. Maps galore, the ready-to-go travel gear packed, the next tickets purchased. These are all in the outside zippered pouches.

Books, stories, reference material, gadgets, tools, smart practical gear for enhancing life’s journey to amplify and simply. Basically things of value add value. These are individually tucked away in labeled zippered bags for quick convenience. Fav stories qued up ready for a good listen around a campfire on my audible app.

Cozy soft inviting blanket: rolled up in bottom zippered section. Ready for any type of warming, cuddling, romanticizing.

Fresh organic foods available daily, packed in the cooler sections. Quick-fuel super-pea protein bars for climbing ancient sites and trails, tucked in every available oriface for easy accessibility.

Time in nature daily; daypack advantageously rolled up in side pocket.

Quality gear: clothing essentials from black tie to rugged hiking rolled tightly for optimum spacing.

Deck of cards, superball, colored pens/pencils and paper, karaoke app; back pocket near handle.

Scented essential oil candles, matches, essential oils, homeopathic first aid kit. Top small inside pocket.

Camera, binoculars, knife, rope, matches, sunscreen, body oil. Extra sunglasses. Separate pack attached to handle.

5000 song playlist.

My furry kids: Traveling Tao the Zen cat and Charlie the Wonder dog: they have their own packs with goodies.

As Ford Perfect* always says, you have to have a towel. Always. A travel towel for everything. Have three sizes all in bold orange.

Separate rollered bag for ski gear for year-round global skiing.

Travel Pass to anywhere anywhen.

E-Ticket full-meal-deal lifetime fun ride.

Leathers. Never know when a Harley needs you.

Honeyed sex as often as the calendar and schedules permit between ships, planes and trains and of course fast cars.

Willingness to make it happen. Daring Confidence in spades to go where you’ve never been.

A ready smile to meet and greet the day and the world.

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I’ll see you out there on Life’s Supra-Highway. Let’s plan on sharing stories and swapping cosmic travel tricks that melt away the worries and brings on the laughter.

 

Cosmic sunshine to you.☀️

*Ford Perfect, major player in “The Hitchhiker’s Guide to the Galaxy” by Douglass Adams. A funny delightful romp.

 

Candia Sanders is an international medical intuitive, high-frequency energy healer, motivator, speaker, teacher, author, the ultimate optimist, and outdoor enthusiast, who has helped thousands of people ease their medical issues, navigate important relationships and find their soul’s purpose and life direction. Candia is the author of the transcendent book, “Soul Rays: Discover the Vibratory Frequency of Your Soul“. She has also written a lively magical and spiritual children’s adventure called “The Adventures of Jack Starr, In Hawaii.” “When Eagles Soar: From Diagnosis, to Death and to Open Dialogue” is her story through cancer and beyond, with her husband who died in 2016. Her goal is to create a new conversation about Death.

Upcoming books: “I Don’t Know, It’s a Mystery: 11 Prompts to Awaken Your Cosmic Connection” ”The Four R’s: Rules to Navigate Life’s Big Questions,” “Head Off, Heart On: Salacious Delights and Tantalizing Treats for Happy Relationships”

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“Priced to Perfection and Creative Speculation: Investment Stategies for Your Future”

There’s an investment saying called “Priced to Perfect” which is when an asset is selling as if the business plan were already in place. An example would be in the real estate market where property is sold based on what it could be if such and such were upgraded and improved. The best choice of course is to make the investment based on what it’s worth now, at the present time not on future speculations otherwise our investment portfolio could take a dramatic hit if markets change. Sound advice financially.

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We deal in a world of “It is what it is.” Investing based on sound decisions and smart choices. Yet to me there’s a paradox on a personal level in the “It Is What Is” theory that needs examining as a reflective mirror into our psyches. Everything is a mirror of itself, a fractal of a larger concept. And besides, I love mixing and matching ideologies and theory and discover new species of thought and awareness. I’ll explain.

What if we were to utilize this concept, this belief or formula, “Priced to Perfection” for ourselves, our self value? Not to sell ourselves of course, but to imagine our worlds the way they would be, could be, will be, the way we’d love them to be and act accordingly? This is at the heart of true manifesting and the creative spark. Imagination. Instead we opt for the mantra “It is What Is,” staying in a small reality block of our own creation and can’t ever figure out why nothing changes in our worlds from our relationships to our financial successes?!? It’s because we have lost our connection to that creative speculation, the enticement of something more, that Shangri la. Because why? “It Is What Is” syndrome of course….😉 which is the never ending circle-game going counter-clockwise, counter-intuitive. Our beliefs and monkey mind-loop limit our life experiences.

“Imagination is more important than knowledge. For knowledge is limited, whereas imagination embraces the entire world, stimulating progress, giving birth to evolution.”          Albert Einstein

Honestly I’m guilty of the “It Is What Is” formula, the repeating mantra based on others beliefs and stories I’ve read that strongly suggests that if we don’t accept “what is” we can’t move forward. Okay, I get that – however – and I’m an “However” kind of girl – I believe strongly there’s a better way to create our treasures along the path, our best goals romantically to financially. It’s to believe feel act feel believe whatever our dreams are, are not only possible they’re inevitable. The hiccup of course is to stay out of the “It Is What Is” syndrome and maintain the “Priced to Perfection” speculation. The investment attitude in ourselves for ourselves for our dreams based on the chosen steps, beliefs, feelings and alignments today. That’s where the present moment of “It is What Is” comes in optimally. We are building our desires based on how we feel today.

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And honestly this requires work on our part to rewrite our stories. About twenty years ago I did this exercise where I’d write in a future journal describing all that was transpiring in my life the way I desired a year ahead of where I actually was. I did this for a period of time. Eventually the things I dreamt came into my reality, perhaps not exactly in the journal’s time-line however on a broader scope they materialized. This is one formula.

Another creative speculation tool is upon waking, sit with expansive thoughts and ideas, and sensuously experience through the six senses how it feels (see I put that in present tense for future reference) to be totally madly in love and/or wealthy, healthy and strong and whatever it is that’s not exactly where you’d like it to be. Be that person. Feel the pleasure. Share the wealth, the love.

One more jewel – is it really is the journey, the amazing path we create that’s at the heart of our own stories. But that’s easy to forget in the mad-dash to the finish line. It gets lost in the “It Is What Is” story too.  Bottom line it’s up to each of us to create our creative speculation, our “Path to Perfection.”

So make it a good one, make it fun.

 

Cosmic sunshine to you.

 

Candia Sanders is an international medical intuitive, high-frequency energy healer, motivator, speaker, teacher, author, the ultimate optimist, and outdoor enthusiast, who has helped thousands of people ease their medical issues, navigate important relationships and find their soul’s purpose and life direction. Candia is the author of the transcendent book, “Soul Rays: Discover the Vibratory Frequency of Your Soul“. She has also written a lively magical and spiritual children’s adventure called “The Adventures of Jack Starr, In Hawaii.” “When Eagles Soar: From Diagnosis, to Death and to Open Dialogue” is her story through cancer and beyond, with her husband who died in 2016. Her goal is to create a new conversation about Death.

Upcoming books: “I Don’t Know, It’s a Mystery: 11 Prompts to Awaken Your Cosmic Connection” ”The Four R’s: Rules to Navigate Life’s Big Questions,” “Head Off, Heart On: Salacious Delights and Tantalizing Treats for Happy Relationships”

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“Spiked Anticipation: What is Yours? Your Body Knows the Answer Every Time”

Here’s a question. Have you ever considered what truly gets your blood boiling-excited enough to spike your heart rate not-quite-over-the-edge but close?

With the advent of FitBit and Garmins and all the other units available to monitor our vitals we now have the ability to see up-front and personal what really curls our toes. What and where our joys and thrills and happiness reside. That anticipatory excitement. Our bodies reveal the truth every time.

I’ve been in this quasi-convo about this topic with a man who’s heart rate literally peaks everytime he has a fish on his line. He’s fishes year round by-the-way so has those happy-heart-spikes happen on a perpetual cycle. Those spikes turn on that brain-bliss-modemarrying zen and desirewithin his mind-body connection. Or when he’s turning right-left right-left on endless curvy roads with his Harley. The fish and bike spike his rate even more so than when he’s sexually aroused and excited. Pretty revealing. Could be disappointing from a certain perspective. 😉 But what’s it’s done for me is made me ask myself what gets my heart rate happy-excited-spiked-high?

To segue for a moment, if we dig honestly into our psyches usually it’s anxiety and or fear that gets us to those heart-pounding peaks, such as before a big meeting, speaking in front of a crowd, fear of flying, large crowds, tests, confronting difficult conversations, ad infinitum. There’s also the physical exertion heart-spike from pushing ourselves in sports activities.

So what spikes my heart? Spikes my bliss to generate that zen and desire brain activation? Where does my anticipation lie where my body literally responds to reveal my inner excitements? Skiing hard and fast of course, that’s a given. Hiking on demanding terrain, yep. Sex is right up there. But what I also discerned is even though I’m usually going and doing I’m also even-keeled, not overly anxious. I wonder if that has any bearing on the spiking outcome? Good question. It’s made me contemplate what do I want to add into my life that would generate that kind of spiked anticipation?

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Think about it. What do you have in your life that throws you that exhilaration-curve-ball? Makes you desire more of it? We are talking healthy here. Not bad habits and addictions. Those feed empty holes within your inner core. Every time behaviors are repeated based on poor choices and wrong motivations even if they momentarily feel good, like too much alcohol, chocolate cake, unconscious sex, etc, nothing within you actually expands, turns on that zen-desire-bliss mode. Our consciousness knows the difference. Our body does too, even if shrouded in high blood-sugar spikes, drugged or smells of sex. Bottom line to ask does this expand or retract my inner being, my consciousness? If it expands then you know it’s true Zen desire.

If you happen to have one of these strap-on-tech monitors watch your peaks and valleys. Check them against your activities, see what really curls your toes. And if things are too flatlined perhaps it’s time to add in some new anticipation. Even if you don’t have a FitBit or Garmin – I don’t – if you pay close attention you will know what really truly curls your toes creating anticipation and Zen all in one magical bliss moment.

Just desiring to spike some new anticipation into your orbit.

Cosmic sunshine to you.☀️

Candia Sanders is an international medical intuitive, high-frequency energy healer, motivator, speaker, teacher, author, the ultimate optimist, and outdoor enthusiast, who has helped thousands of people ease their medical issues, navigate important relationships and find their soul’s purpose and life direction. Candia is the author of the transcendent book, “Soul Rays: Discover the Vibratory Frequency of Your Soul“. She has also written a lively magical and spiritual children’s adventure called “The Adventures of Jack Starr, In Hawaii.” “When Eagles Soar: From Diagnosis, to Death and to Open Dialogue” is her story through cancer and beyond, with her husband who died in 2016. Her goal is to create a new conversation about Death.

Upcoming books: “I Don’t Know, It’s a Mystery: 11 Prompts to Awaken Your Cosmic Connection” ”The Four R’s: Rules to Navigate Life’s Big Questions,” “Head Off, Heart On: Salacious Delights and Tantalizing Treats for Happy Relationships”

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